Things you are not responsible for, and must absolve yourself of responsibility for, right now
- What other people think of you
- Other people’s decisions and life choices (good or bad)
- Other people’s relationships
- Other people’s thoughts, words, actions, omissions, feelings, and opinions
- Other people’s mistakes
- Other people’s fandoms and how they choose to participate in them
- Other people’s moods
- Other people’s personal drama
- Other people’s addictions, vices, and compulsions
- Keeping the household humming along in the midst of your parents’ poor choices
- Other people’s happiness
- Being perfect
- Whether or not other people like you
- How other people feel about you
- Fixing everything that’s wrong in the world, or in your little corner of it
- Anyone’s decision to continue a relationship with you (or not)
- Your family’s reputation



































